is vital for us to believe that, at least those we love and who love us be sincere and honest with us.
We very human need to believe and trust each other.
With the security and peace gives us confidence that we are better disposed to accept the risks.
Most of us know how painful it may be cheating, especially when we have been deceived by those we love. Our personal safety is based on the assumption that the information you provide those we love, is honest. When this security falters, or when we lose, our lives can be temporarily (or even for some, permanently) destroyed.
In his book Creative Living , Clark Moustakas says
Being honest in a relationship is sometimes greatly
difficult and painful. However, in the same
instant when a person evades the truth, the fibers
central off his ego, and the person starts a
process of deception, a way to manipulate the other person
to prevent discovering "the real thoughts
and real feelings."
Only the truth, however painful it may be sometimes, you can create a secure environment and drive growth.
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