Oscar Wilde said "Only the shallow know themselves."
There is a wonderful story about a man who, after many years of study himself, left in a state of wild jubilation. Ran screaming: "Finally I know! Finally I discovered the secret of myself. I know myself!" A curious passerby stopped him and said: "That's great. What have you discovered?" The happy man replied: "I am one with everything." The passerby said again: "Are you one with everything?" And the man replied: "Do you mean that I am not?"
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our evolution as individuals is a process that lasts a lifetime, we must take risks to show ourselves as we are: incomplete and imperfect.
I have a friend who says he probably is not much but all you have at this time and is willing to give them to us in the hope that is enough.
is a fact that relationships do not fail because of major problems, but a series of small things for long periods of time. Relationships fail not because they're bad but because most people do not want to correct their problems. Want everything to be in his way.
Surprise and happy accident have faded while we disappear in the shadow of the predictable.
If we keep the illusion of "security in the sanity" does not really come to understand what life is all about. Indeed, life, in spite of us, is very short, and death comes to us most before we're ready for it, as the ultimate and fundamental surprise!
I always tried to define a good day not so much as a day that I things were good or comfortable, but as a day where I was able, through word or action concerned and attentive, making another day was more special or full of love for them . And it works!
Only it comes to privacy so when we have a deep respect for the attitudes, rights and feelings of others as our own.
individual rights of a person in any relationship are the same rights they had as yet unaware of the existence of the other partner.
The affair is the process by which we are willing to share our vision by reducing the distance between them.
The changes depend on the goodwill of that person to meet our needs. We
get to create seductive means to make this behavior fit our needs. But for me, this reflects a total disregard for the value of the person that we love.
happiness and true freedom will only be achieved when we assume full responsibility for what we are.
As we pass the blame, feel no need to change our own lives.
The enduring happiness and peace come from within. When we, the people and things come and go but the joy remains forever with us.
If we choose happiness over despair, not only be able to generate but also of spreading it. Being
beloved friend or family members is a smart attitude for friendship brings a deep desire to know someone, the main requirement of love. Implies a healthy curiosity directed towards our external. It is an unselfish desire to experience other human beings as they are and to draw them to us enough to make them feel safe and tell us who they are.
is strange that we are willing to accept friends and acquaintances as they are more easily than our loved ones closer.
Friendship reflects a deep regard for the value of the individual.
For rite means an established form of ceremony. Tradition is the oral transmission of information, concepts and traditions of generation. These are things that unite us are valuable links that make working for the future and deal makes sense. To be transmitted from one generation to remain always as safe in an uncertain world. Provide a readily understood meaning which otherwise would be meaningless.
Dr. Theodore Rubin: "The problem is not that there are problems but hope otherwise and thinking that having problems is a problem."
We need courage to face the future and know that, in any case , will not last forever. Nothing lasts forever. Neither pain nor joy, nor even life.
"The important thing is to sacrifice at any moment what we are for what could become" Charles Dubois
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