There is a direct relationship between the degree of physical proximity and their children experience mental health.
Most do not fully embrace, even to people we love. But for some mysterious reason, we equate the sentimental tenderness, weakness and vulnerability. We are so afraid to give and receive affection.
Desmond Morris suggests that fear is related to old play and usually unconscious sexual taboos. This idea has made it difficult for us to allow any physical contact that does not involve sexual participation. He claims that this has resulted
... massive inhibition of our nonsexual physical intimacy and this has been applied to relationships with our parents and children (care, Oedipus!), our brothers (careful, incest!), our friends of the same sex (careful, homosexuality!), our friends of the opposite sex (careful, adultery!), and our many friends accidental (care, promiscuity!). All this is understandable, but totally unnecessary.
learn to be safe, feeling the warmth d a hug in times of need. From the moment of conception, the unborn child is gently wrapped in the warmth and the embrace of the uterus. After his birth, is so essential that security continued to remain a child without touching and hugging, form a relationship with whatever link is present, even with cloth toys or a mother monkey adoption. If you are denied all human tactile experience, the child dies.
A simple touch has the power to change a lifetime.
Our ability to relate primarily determined by our tactile experience of children. Demonstrations of affection are necessary for health at all times.
Our very organic chemistry changes when we are physically close to another. Dr. David Bresler
"is addictive. Once you have started to embrace, it is very difficult to quit!"
Unfortunately, almost without realizing it, we have gradually become less and less likely a las caricias, cada vez mas distantes, y a la intocabilidad física se ha sumado la lejanía emocional. Es como si el habitante urbano moderno se hubiera puesto una armadura emocional y, con una mano de terciopelo dentro de un guante de hierro, comenzara a sentirse atrapado y alienado hasta de los sentimientos de sus compañeros más cercanos.
El sexo sin amor, al igual que cualquier droga, se convierte simplemente en la expresión de una necesidad física básica y de un deseo personal y se desgasta una vez que se ha llegado al orgasmo.
Evidentemente, las técnicas, como tales, no son malas, para jugar al golf, para actuar o para hacer el amor. Pero en el sexo, el énfasis overemphasis on technique produces a mechanical attitude toward the act of making love and is accompanied by alienation, loneliness and feelings of depersonalization.
I have no doubt that if a person loves another enough, he or she will discover seventy-three position or point Z or G or Q without a manual.
Most are tired of remoteness. We need to find a new proximity, new ways of approaching, jumping the gaps between us and those we love. It is clear that physical proximity is only one way to communicate. And this communication is vital to build relationships.
How long has it been since someone touched me?
Twenty years ago I am a widow. Respected. Greeted.
But never touched ... Oh God, I feel so alone.
remember Hank and children. What other way I can remember
if not together? Hank did not mind
my body fat and a bit withered.
He loved and loved to touch. And the children hugged me,
lot ... Oh God, I feel so lonely! God, why
not educate kids to be silly and affectionate
worthy addition and correct. They arrive in their cars
expensive. Come to my room to say hello.
talk brilliantly and reminisce. But do not touch me.
call me mom, or mother or grandmother. Never Minnie.
My mother called Minnie. And also my friends. Hank
I also called Minnie. But they
gone and Minnie as well.
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